Close to my Heart !

“If you are reading this, you have survived your entire life up until this point. You have survived traumas, heartbreaks, devastation, the different phases of life.
You go, ….you’re AWESOME.”  – unknown

Everyone wants to be perfect son, daughter, father, mother, husband, wife, friend, leader…. and me too. But its very challenging to be perfect because its definition differs for person to person. I read many books to find out how perfection can  be scaled in a relationship ? finally got confused ! 🙁

Later on, I realised that its nothing ! We all think that to achieve perfection, you have to meet / satisfy the need / requirement of the person(s) staring at you. Actually you can’t ! Its you, first propitiate yourself, and to satisfy ourselves, we need to do things in right way in our life. Means…always do things in a way which you expect from others and be truthful toward your loved ones.

Life is full of joy, regrets and surprises, don’t try to overdo to take control. Its very simple :

 – You know what you want for yourself.
 – You will never want or do anything bad for yourself.
 – Start giving the same to people around you. This will ensure that you are doing right things for others, because you know these are good things to do.
 – And when you start giving the same to others, they will also return you the same.
– Now, you will find yourself a good human being !

Below are few great statements which are ‘close to my heart’ and inspires me in many aspect of my life ” 

“Speak the truth, even if your voice shakes”

“Do not say, ‘I have no regrets’. Regret is inevitable, many time life hurts. The trick is, not minding that it hurts”

“Be with someone who makes you happy”

“Happiest people don’t have best of everything, they just make the best of everything”

“Remind yourself that it’s okay not to be perfect”

” Sometimes I feel like to giving up, then I remember I have lot of people to prove wrong”

“Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned” – Buddha.

“Stars can’t shine without darkness”

“Never chase Love, Affection, or Attention. if it is not given freely by another person, it isn’t worth having”.

“The reason we struggle with insecurity is because we compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel”  

“You can’t start new chapter of your life, if you keep re-reading the last one.”

“Judging a person does not define who they are. It defines who you are.”

Dedicated to my life…  – “She never looked Nice, she looked like Art, and Art wasn’t supposed to look Nice; It was supposed to make you feel something” 

Recently an incident in my life, shouted on me that – “We never really grow up, we only learn how to act in public” 

Grow UP !!!!


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One Response to Close to my Heart !

  1. Shubram K says:

    Very true, Alok some of your articles are geat to read. Full of exp and felt that written directly from your heart. Good.

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