Two main hurdles in our Success – Blaming & Complaining

    • It’s very easy to blame someone for the job which remain incomplete.
    • It’s very easy to complain about the dirty home.
    • It’s very easy to blame your spouse for buying some low quality product.
    • It’s very easy to complain about the nature of your partner.
    • It’s very easy to blame that they cheated you.
    • It’s very easy to complain that your family or friends do not care for you.
    • It’s very easy to blame the company for your slow growth.
    • It’s very easy to complain about the society.

Many more such complains and blames we make in our everyday life but the truth is ….

    • It’s you who didn’t took the charge and allowed things to be delayed.
    • It’s you who didn’t tried to clean your home.
    • It’s you who didn’t bother to help him/her in evaluating the product.
    • It’s you who never tried to understand the nature and need of your partner.
    • Its you who trusted them.
    • It’s you who never cares for anyone.
    • It’s you who decided to stay in the job.
    • It’s who never tried or suggested any change in the society.

 In short…you have done everything and you are the only one who is responsible for all the success & failures in your professional & personal life.

Why we complain and for what?

Have you ever observed that we only complain about  those things where we have option to do something about. We never complain about the things which are out of our control. No one complains about sun and gravity. Sun produces heat, but we never say that why he is not producing cold waves or why today sun is so hot?. In the same way we never complain why things are falling down because of gravity? Rather we use these powers to create many positive things.

We complain when we expect better results or we have an image of something better than what we have right now. We complain because we failed to take timely action to get the expected results and we blame because we don’t have courage to face the truth.

Once when our annual performance rating was declared, my boss asked -“Are you happy with the rating?”. I simply replied – “If I am not happy then will try for a change and If I am still here then should not be complaining on what I received”.

We want to make money, better job, nice house, more friends, exotic holidays but do not take required action to accomplish them, so we complain. Those who take risk and action for their goals, rarely complains.

The Idea is to take responsibility of yourself. We can’t change people around us, environment, nature, circumstances, but  we can change ourselves. Take responsibility of your life’s actions and decision and stop complaining. Life will become simpler, lighter and successful. I am also trying to implement this rule in my life 🙂 .

Few great statements (from Brainy Quotes):

1.  People won’t have time for you if you are always angry or complaining. ~S Hawking

2. Everyone has to make their own decisions. I still believe in that. You just have to be able to accept the consequences without complaining.  ~ Grace Jones

3.  You don’t make progress by standing on the sidelines, whimpering and complaining. You make progress by implementing ideas. ~ Shirley Chisholm

4. Complaining not only ruins everybody else’s day, it ruins the complainer’s day, too. The more we complain, the more unhappy we get. ~ Dennis Prager

5. There are times in life when, instead of complaining, you do something about your complaints. ~ Rita Dove


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7 Responses to Two main hurdles in our Success – Blaming & Complaining

  1. vivek says:

    Good one Alok

  2. Dp says:

    this is so true

  3. Kirtee R says:

    People don’t dare to say or Analyse this point…….nice that u shared the same for them Alok

  4. gr 8 man!!!!!its so true

  5. Thanks Shubham…You also know these things!

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